I Forgive But Won't Forget

Let me tell you a story. This happened while I was at work one day. A woman came through my check out line. She had her two grandchildren with her, one boy and one girl, and like many customers who shop at this particular store, was paying very little attention to them. The grandchildren, as […]

Steps Toward Body Positivity

Being body positive is a difficult, but important mindset. Acknowledging and accepting that there are different body types while also striving to be conventionally attractive is a delicate balance. Some might find it impossible, But, as someone who is conventionally considered a fat ass, I’m here to tell you that it is possible, with a […]

Victimhood vs. Survivorship

Sometimes the terms victim and survivor are used interchangeably when it comes to sexual assault. However, thanks to my own experience with sexual assault, I believe there is a difference. It is a subtle and nuanced difference, and one can be both victim and survivor at the same time. The word victim suggests a more […]

Presumption of Innocence

Apologies for my absence last week. After the shitshow that was the Kavanaugh hearing and his subsequent confirmation, I took a mini vacation to visit a friend (read: I was having sex). Now that I’m back, I have a few thoughts I need to share about the situation. We’ll start with presumption of innocence, or, […]